There was one point, when there was some unnecessary stuff going on in the blogosphere – in kl anyway – a long while back. The incident had happened a long time ago, but I think part of essence of the fuming was still reeling here and there amongst certain bloggers.. Anyways that’s not the point of my post. When i had mention my frustration to PinkPau – of how they can be so petty and I dislike seeing fights like these.. she mentioned a characteristic in me.. that maybe I hadn’t come to realise or rather didn’t take much notice of till she said it. I can’t remember the exact phrasing but something along the line being anti argumentative… for lack of a better word right now.
But yeah… I don’t particularly like seeing arguments, fights and what not. I don’t like seeing or hearing them because it causes not only distress to me mentally but also to others around me. I find it very futile and unnecessary when there are people who do not fully agree with one another. I know it will happen at times, however I still can’t stand it.
I don’t like hearing argument that turn into shouting modes.. even though I know it can happen to me at times… I don’t like hearing two people talk bad about one another. I don’t like it when i hear myself talk bad or anything negative about another person. I hate it when I see close friends turn on one another. Or rather I hate it when there are just petty things within circles of friends that should not be happening that causes the rest of the group to feel… well uncomfortable. This isn’t in regards to any situation now, rather it’s just me thinking in general over past experiences like these.
I prefer staying in the neutral bench and I will only pick a side when i really find one side is just going over board. Even then, I still prefer to keep it neutral, I usually keep it like so by telling off both sides what my opinion is of the situation. Take it or leave it kind of thing. Of course I can give my empathies, however if I really think that whole story is not worth my time, I’ll give it a point blank answer, in saying enough is enough. Cut the crap, life is too short and complicated enough as it is. Don’t make it any more dramatic by ruining the good stuff that you have going on for yourself.
Makes me wonder sometimes, what I say here… can be implemented further into myself…. But yesh.. if there is a debate/ argument going on. Would you prefer to take sides or keep your sitting on the middle of the fence?
